You can be the ripest, juiciest peach in the world and there’s still going to be someone who hates peaches.
It is the obvious which is so difficult to see most of the time. People say ‘It’s as plain as the nose on your face.’ But how much of the nose on your face can you see, unless someone holds a mirror up to you?
Intimacy is the capacity to be rather weird with someone - and finding that that’s ok with them.
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